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Digging Deep Wells

June 06, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

Digging deep wells

Digging deep wells

That’s what we’re doing

Digging the wells

Digging the wells

That is who we are


We got dirt on our face

from digging new space

sunshine in the pocket

from the joy you giving

Storing your grace

In our hearts

Cuz we’re digging the wells

Digging the wells

Digging the wells

of your loveeee

Cuz we’re digging the wells

Digging the wells

Digging the wells

of your loveee

We got dirt on our face

Digging new space

We got dirt on our face

from digging new space

sunshine in the pocket

from the joy you giving

Storing your grace

In our hearts

June 06, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Thrive Together

June 06, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

laugh about the silly

crack yourself up

for simply being human

enjoy the little things

spread your wings

smile big

soak in the quiet

play & rest

stay by it

hold it close

your heart needs it most

come alive

let’s thrive

together

in joy

June 06, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Shabbat Shalom

June 02, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

Sundown to sundown

we rest, play, and enjoy

the day he gave

for us to rest in the warmth

of his arms

a slow morning

a spontaneous afternoon

a candle lit dinner

it always seems to end too soon

we are growing

learning how to rest

to be His children

is truly the best

A God who designed us

to be filled up on Him

He’s perfect, fun, creative

It’s the biggest win

Shabbat we will grow in

Shabbat we will live from

Together, we experience

Shabbat with Shalom

Shabbat Shalom, friends

June 02, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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You & Me

June 02, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

You & Me forever

a love affair

full of affirmation

joy and wonder

my one and only heavenly lover

lets dance

lets laugh

lets cry

lets fly away

soak up all the time we have

endless eternity

it starts now

you and me forever

my heavenly lover

I love you

thank you for showing me the way

thank you for showering me with your grace

“you’re special, you’re unique”

“you’re desirable in everyway”

“you built your house on a rock”

“nothing will stop you”

from pursuing me, all eternity

it is your prophetic destiny

enjoy and share, like you do

June 02, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Joyfilled Provisions

May 27, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Joy Stories

My wonderful housemate is moving out onto an amazing living opportunity that has been presented to her. It’s incredible! & upon hearing this news, for a split 10 seconds (let’s be real probably more than that) I was like "oh man" in my head, doing my best to outwardly show only the excitement and trying to hide the feeling of sadness and perhaps a little fear of the unknown. I didn’t like that, because I deeply wanted to authentically be fully all in with celebrating my housemate’s new endeavor, trusting all would be well at my house, too.

I felt what I believe the Holy Spirit whipser to me, “Kailey if I provide for her, why wouldn’t I also provide good things for you, too?” Upon hearing that thought, I felt peace rush through my body, a sense of calm came over, hope revealed itself, again. Like it always does. Why do I worry?

Almost simultaneously, another thought pops in my head "I wonder what you're up to here, God? Surely, it is good!" So I start praying over the soon to be empty room & just say "whatever you see fitting I'm so down God!" Whether that be a new housemate, no housemate, foster care, refugee support, etc etc, anything & everything.

Same day my roommate officially makes the decision to move out & take this opportunity she has for her own place, I go to a wedding (last Sunday) & I have this keen sense God is going to do something significant there. But I literally expect to know about 2 people there total haha. Hmm. What are you up to, God?

After the ceremony, I go to find my seat, as I approach the table I will be dining at, this beautiful gal with a kind and warm demeanor comes up to me and says something along the lines of, "do you remember me Kailey?" Turns out her name is Kailee too! And I realize we had met years agoooo at an outdoor every heart worship event in Holland.

We start chatting, she asks what I’ve been up to lately, I start talking about all things God, joy, and adventure, including working on this house that God provided for me to live in and have as a place of belonging for others, a place of peace.

I briefly mention that my housemate is moving out and I am starting to pray about what to do with the soon to be empty room in this next season and as I am talking, Kailee lights up and says something along the lines of “I am actually looking to rent a room & be in more community before I transition to getting married.”My heart starts to feel warm, a sense of peace and hope fills my body. Woah.

We take a week to pray about it. Then we make a decision.

Done deal. That quick, God provided next steps. Kailee is officially my soon to be new housemate and we are going to be walking together in growing in our relationship with God and helping to prepare for her upcoming marriage in the next 6-12 months. Not only that, she and her significant other are eager to practice and apply more of the life model into their lives, a way of living that I am deeply passionate about and have prayed my home could be a nurturing place for just that. To be able to live with a housemate excited about this stuff is a double blessing. I cannot wait.

Thankful for experiencing joy with God’s provisions. He want’s to share his joy through provisions for you too, friend! Sometimes even that quick.

“If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him” Matthew 7:11

May 27, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Worn

May 17, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

full schedule

many friends

loving people

it’s not a a trend

It’s a way of life

that breeds joy and light

but in my own might

I become worn

but I get torn

because people

waiting to be loved

the needs are great

the resource is few

so I try to be two of me

but that can’t possibly be

cuz God made me one

He says rest

I’ll take care of other’s stress

you need only be still

Go play

Go create

Go enjoy my playground

nature is the world’s renown

of beauty, strength, and opportunity

to spend time with the majesty

of all creation

Go play, Kailey

imagine, dream,

let me remind you, of who you are

my wild child, full of adventure

never let up

just let me fill your cup

enjoy, and spend time with me

cuz I love you

May 17, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Relational Circuitry

May 14, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry


Let’s get equipped on our relational circuitry.

Let’s spread joy to the masses

Let’s take some classes that help us grow

So we can sow into what’s good, right, and true

How bout you, what you wanna do?

Join me, let’s become more free

Let’s live, let’s love, let’s laugh with good purpose

Let’s surf the big waves

& stay relational, our best selves,
All our days

Were made for it
It’s in our design

May 14, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Daughtership

May 07, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

Love affair

To be His Bride

I can wade through any tide

I can love wide

and sit side by side with danger

and not be overcome

Because my lover won

My heart

Long ago


There’s no stopping his daughter

from becoming

Who she’s made to be

Loved, redeemed, free

I belong to the one who made me

Fearfully, wonderfully, chosen


His affirmations of me are woven

in my inner being

through my mind

I hear His voice

“you’re one of a kind”

Daughter, friend, lover

You start a trend

on true identity

looking to me

as the one to show you

Who you are


Those scars you have

They’re lovely

They tell a story

of strength, resilience, victory


The growth you’ve done

Is preparation for what’s to come

I will not stop the good work

till its complete in you

On the day I’m coming through

to make all things new


Daughtership

It’s true

You’re mine

I am yours

I am secure with you

May 07, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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SONS AND DAUGHTERS

May 06, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry




We are forerunners 

For His glory 




We are 

Sons and Daughters

For His name 




Loved, cherished, delighted in 

With Him we win  

Our biggest battles 




Land mines, temptations, sin 

No comparison to being on the “in”  

With creator, designer 

The one who made us 




We can trust in everyway 

He’s here to stay 

Not goin anywhere 




He says draw near 

I’m with you 

Thru and thru 




We fight together 

To learn freedom, joy, peace, and love 

We build the kingdom of God 

On earth as it is in heaven 

We aint messin 




This is real 

This is truth 

It’s time for you

To be the best version of yourself, too 




True identity 

Sons and daughters

Find your best self 

Here, with the father 




He loves you 

You’re made to shine, too 

Let’s do this, together  




May 06, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Joyful Oil Dripping

May 03, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

One step at a time

For my inside dimes

Somethin bout love


Breakthrough shines through

The fear, the dread, the toil

Let my joyful oil drip all over

You need only be still

I will cover you

So we sing, we dance, we rejoice

I let that oil make noise

We sing joy, joy, joyful oil

Drip, drip, all over us

We sing joy, joy, joyful oil

Drip, drip, all over us

My revelation will guide through

My love will watch over you

Like a ship in the night

My light shines onto

The path I set out for you

Because you’re the one I love

My holy dove guides

You only need abide

Cuz I’m truer than true

I make that known to you

You need only be still

Im here for you

One step at a time


Let my joyful oil drip all over

So we sing, we dance, we rejoice

We let that oil make noise

We sing joy, joy, joyful oil

Drip, drip, all over us

We sing joy, joy, joyful oil

Drip, drip, all over us


May 03, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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My Purpose, My Joy, My Delight

April 30, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

My purpose 


Firstly, is to be loved 

And to know His love

Covenant marriage 

To the divine, the triune 


Second is to love others 

Without limit 

To grow by the minute 

One day become a mother 

That nurtures without tether  


Who builds family with her lover 

The one God destined to cover 

Together one, a fusion for His glory 

My purpose is to shine the light of joy 

To this lonely and broken world 

To help others enjoy 

The work of His hands 


My purpose is to strengthen 

The church back to health

My purpose is to lengthen 

Believers relational wealth 

Unto sanctification 

That reaches the depths

Of wholistic living 


Relational, emotional

Mental, spiritual 

Social, Intellectural 

Holiness

We’re on our way. 


My purpose

Is to be loved by Him 

To become fused with a Godly win  

Build family and nourish 

Live from a place of joy 

Teach others to enjoy  

Strengthen the church with health 

Shine with courage 

And Fulfill destiny 

Hand in hand with God

The one who sees

This is my purpose 

Let’s shine, together 


My top values:

Joy

Authenticity

Belonging

Adventure

 

Ephesians 2:10



April 30, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Childlike joy

April 28, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

childlike with adult friends, is a beautiful feeling, leaves me reelin, in the best way

why do we loose childlikeness when we do adult things?

we’re not meant to loose it, yet if we don’t choose it, the work swing runs hard, & our inner child get’s marred

sorta lost it once, but it came back more true,
& if you’ve lost it, not late for a do over, it’s in you

freedom, love, adventure, and to belong, my hope for all, please come along

the God who created us, is one we can trust, for goodness, safety, peace, and joy

he’s the one who designed us, let us enjoy

the work of his hands, is beautiful

he designed you wonderfully, too

cmon let’s be childlike, the world needs you

Psalm 19:1

April 28, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Unity

April 27, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

Unity

is building authenticity

it’s fostering sense of community

We practice the way, together


Unity is Authenticity

It requires mutual respect

understanding, and empathy

Authenticity grows with ownership

Pursuit of relationally wellbeing

& the building of positive relationships

We address relational issues

We grow in joy & peace, together


Unity, is fostering community

It’s belonging and connection

Everyone feels valued & supported

We learn, share, and grow together

in the context of safety & support

No one has to abort because they belong

Even when fallin short

We value spiritual growth

We pursue discipleship

together, a slow burn

Unto greater wholeness


Unity is practicing The Way

We emulate Jesus’s teaching on love

Humility, and unity, attunement to the holy dove

We follow His example in all ways

We foster mindsets of compassion, encouragement

Not letting our big emotions sway

us from loving God and eachother

Unity

is building authenticity

it’s fostering sense of community

We practice the way, together


Poetry adapted from lifemodelworks.org

April 27, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Shine your Light

April 27, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

Oh best friend,

Tell us what you’re thinking,

Oh tell us what you’re thinking,

We wanna know your heart

We wanna know where to start

When it comes to love, love, loving

cuz we wanna,

Shine your light, shine your light, higher

Shine your light, shine your light, brighter

Shine your love, shine your love to this worlddddd

Oh best friend,

Tell us what you’re thinking

Oh tell us what you’re thinking

We wanna know your heart

We wanna know where to start

When it comes to love, love loving

cuz we wanna,

Shine your light, shine your light, higher

Shine your light, shine your light, brighter

Shine your love, shine your love to this worlddddd

It is trueeeeee

There is nothin better than youuuu

It is trueeeee

We wanna love like youuuu

So Jesus comeeee, fill our minds with you

So Jesus comeeee, teach us to be like youuuu

April 27, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Joy Makers Journey

April 26, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

I recently received an email from the VoyageMichigan Magazine that seems to be doing a series on the "hidden gems" of entrepreneurs and they asked Joy Makers Project to participate in an interview process for one of their articles. I was shocked & stoked in the best way! 

With that, I wanted to send a piece of the story of how Joy Makers started and where it seems to be headed. Joy Makers Project started out as what I believe to be a "God given vision" and I believe it will continue to grow and hopefully flourish into whatever would bring Jesus the most joy, this is my prayer! 

Read on for a bit of backstory on Joy Maker Project. Here it is: 

Joy Makers Project was born out of my experiences 7 years ago, traveling the world for 11 months pursuing non profit volunteer work (thank you Adventures in Missions and Seth Barnes!) Each country volunteered in, I noticed something in common: the world is hurting and people need more joy in their lives. 

Upon return to the United States, this conviction of people needing more joy led me on a mission to do everything I could to spread joy to the individuals and communities around me through random acts of kindness, starting with Holland, MI. Seth Barnes, the Smith family, and several friends were a huge encouragement in this endeavor. 

At first it looked like picking creative ways to go out and spread joy, then creating videos for social media to inspire and encourage others to go out and spread joy, too. Sometimes that would entail buying basketballs, soccer balls, and frisbees, handing them out to kids at the park. Other times it looked like dropping off random notes of encouragement at the airport, stores and other sorts of random acts. The response was positive, impactful, and the receivers of these random acts of kindness raved about it. 

Over the years, I kept noticing how people’s faces would light up when they would be receivers of these “joy gifts” through random acts of kindness. There was something about the sparkle in people's eyes, that felt captivating to me. I just wanted so badly to see more of that in others. And, when I started posting these "random act of kindness joy stories" over social media, I had several people message me, explaining how my impact of spreading joy in some ways, helped keep them away from suicide or further bullying at school. I was dumbfounded! 

As Joy Makers Project progressed over the next several years, I sensed there must be more to the concept of joy than simply doing random acts of kindness but wasn’t really sure where to start with doing a deeper dive of studying on the significance of joy. But God! In 2022 I met my now good friend and Mentor, Chris Coursey, president of Thrive today, who introduced me to the concept of studying the significance of joy from a neuro-theological and psychological perspective. This profoundly expanded my world view on joy, which allowed me to understand in greater measures how joy in individual and community lives was necessary for positive mental health outcomes, human development and growth, and healthy cultures. 

This captivating revelation led me to study, practice, and apply practical brain and relational skills in my own life, which was profoundly transformational. My capacity to manage difficulties increased, my relationships grew in greater measures of joy and appreciation, I felt consistently lighter on the inside, more energized, and even strengthened. My attachment to God began to grow leaps and bounds. I felt happier and healthier than I ever had before. 

Because of how transformative it was in my own life, I started implementing practical brain skills and relational skills gauranteed to increase joy into my clinical practice, Joy Makers workshops, and all over social media. I started to emphasize to my clients and social media followers, if practiced and applied, these joy building skills would increase joyful living personally and increase relational/emotional health in individuals and communities lives with those around. 

Today Joy Makers Project focused on both continuing to show up with kindness and generosity and also intentionally training individuals and groups of teams on increasing their capacities for joy. Today, it's a fusion of both learning to experience joy and spread it wherever one may go.

I do my best to share generously what i’ve learned from my own experiences, schooling, and mentorship from Chris Coursey and am dedicated to spending the rest of my life studying the significance of joy and helping others experience its transformative potential in their lives, too. 

Though Joy Makers Project continues to evolve, it continues to seek to be an leading voice in individuals, families, business, and church lives, being a living example of the power and importance of experiencing and spreading joy in one's everyday life. I also seek to emphasize the importance of never underestimating what one act of kindness can do, one act of "glad to see you smile" can do, to impact someone, or even change the trajectory of someone’s life for the better.

Thank you for being part of this project simply by being connected in big or small ways. 

With gratitude,
Kailey with Joy Makers Project 

I continue to be so grateful learning about Joy from Chris with Thrive today andThe Life Model on building joyful relationships and communities. 

Learn about Joy Makers Projecthere 
Check out where I've been getting all kinds of Joy training at 
Thrive Today

About Joy Makers Project 
Joy is deeply involved with Human Development and Positive Mental Health Outcomes. Joy Makers Project leads with an uncommon solution for the devastating Mental Health problems our world is experiencing today. We train communities of people to maximize their experiencing and spreading of Joy one individual and group at a time. It’s that simple and has profound transformative potential. Clickhereto get started! 

Joy is for the inside and the outside of the margins, for the weak and for the strong, the healed and the broken, the young and the old, all are invited into a more joy filled, satisfying life (adapted from The Life Model).

April 26, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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We are a people

April 23, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

We are a people

Who go beyond the steeple

We are a people

Who know who we are

Because the God of glory

Designed you and me

To do good works

For the world to see

There is a God who loves thee

Rich, poor, cracks, and corners

Mature, immature, those outside the boarders

The wounded the healed

The scathed and unscathed

the ones who do right & the ones who steal

We are a people

Who grow in love

Who treat weaknesses with tenderness

Who rely on the holy dove

For wisdom, Godsight,

Whether to go east or west

We are tight

With the one who made us

Into a people

A more human community

That praises thee

one and only

king of kings

Jesus, our glory

We are His people



April 23, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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The Big 6 Negative Emotions

April 17, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

Do you see tendencies in yourself to avoid, dismiss, or get swallowed up by certain emotions? We’re designed to learn how to manage our big 6 negative emotions and return to joy and peace amidst feeling them. Learning and maturing this skill increases your capacity to experience and spread joy! 

FEAR: Perception of danger or harm, whether real or imagined

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body? 

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?

  4. How do you manage it healthily? 

ANGER: Feelings of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility, often arising from frustration, perceived injustice, or feeling wronged

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body?

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?  

  4. How do you manage it healthily? 

SADNESS: Negative feeling characterized by unhappiness, sorrow, or loss

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body?

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?  

  4. How do you manage it healthily? 

HOPELESS DESPAIR: An emotional state characterized by a complete absence of hope and a feeling that things will never improve

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body? 

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?

  4. How do you manage it healthily? 

SHAME: Toxic shame is a painful emotion characterized by a belief that one is flawed and unworthy of love and belonging, leading to feelings of embarrassment, inadequacy, and a desire to hide. Healthy shame is focused on specific actions causing a sense of embarrassment and sense of “these people aren't glad to be with me or im not glad to be with myself right now”  

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body?

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?  

  4. How do you manage it healthily? 

DISGUST: Intense feeling of revulsion or strong dislike, often experienced in response to something considered offensive, unpleasant, or potentially harmful

  1. When do you experience it? 

  2. What does it feel like in your body? 

  3. What are your “old” coping patterns?

  4. How do you manage it healthily?  

 Resource adapted from THRIVEtoday.org 

"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creation: the old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new”

2 Corinthians 5:17



April 17, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Unscathed with joy

April 14, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella

I am without 

Suffering, injury, or harm

Because of security 

In the one who made me 

Attachment 


To the God of glory 

The maker of intimacy 


Deeply loved, valued, seen

Understood

I am His peachy keen 
And if anything should happen 

Where the wind blows

Where the enemy is tappin 


I will still be safe and covered 

I will never be outnumbered 

Cuz the one who made the heavens and the sea  
Has secure attachment with me 


Together, forever, we are one 

Covenant 


Unscathed 

My joy made complete in Him

April 14, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Special Neighbors spreading joy

April 14, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Joy Stories

Neighbors can be such a blessing and I have a cool story to share with you about a very special neighbor!

I grew up on the east side of MI & moved away to Traverse City in 5th grade. We had very special neighbors who brought lots of joy to my family back on the east side of MI. It was a hard goodbye but thankfully it was just a “see you later!”

Fast forward at least 10 years, I found myself at the same college in Holland Mi as the special neighbors son.

So we reconnected & then fast forward to a little less than a year ago. I was prayerfully considering to buy a home & a bit nervous with the big purchase.

As I discerned this purchase, to my joy & surprise, I had a realization that my old special neighbors son, was actually living across the street from the house I was prayerfully considering buying, WOAH!

Fast forward to today, the Dad of the son of those special neighbors from 5th grade who I moved away from, stopped by their sons house today (across the street from my home) & saw me landscaping, or at least attempting to, haha!

We chatted & he left for a bit to take care of some things. I thought to myself during that time, “man God I am so glad these special neighbors live across the street from me after all these years. It’s so comforting to even just say hello to them here and there.”

I had also been slightly concerned in my head thinking "how am I going to afford the landscaping I desire to do to this home? What should I prioritize first? I thought to myself, "mulch for sure" this thought had crossed my mind that afternoon and week prior.

Fast forward to about 5 minutes later, my special neighbor’s Dad shows up to my driveway with bags on bags of beautiful brown mulch.

He surprised me!! He shared it was meant to be a house warming gift. Wow. The generosity! The joy! The glad to be togetherness.

Not only did this Dad provide surprise mulch, he also helped me plant all these plants in the front yard.

This was a true gift and a blessing and every-time I look at the landscape, no doubt I will smile by this wonderful Dad’s and special neighbors gift.

Any good gift is a gift from the giver of life 🤍 James 1:17

April 14, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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Joyful Tension

April 14, 2025 by Kailey Mattarella in Poetry

No striving

Just abiding

In the one who made me

Jesus you are always enough

You help me remain tough

Yet soft in the best way

You are all I need today

Tomorrow has enough worries of its own

I learn to rest with no stress

Because with God I have been shown

In time, all is clear, my soul is well

I need only be still

And remain in your will

Loved, special, and delighted in

I am cherished & so are you

Let’s walk this life

Hand in hand, friends

Let’s build glad to be togetherness

The world needs you

To shine on too

We can do this, forever

April 14, 2025 /Kailey Mattarella
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